Skip navigation

no spam, unsubscribe anytime.
Skip navigation

"Red Rover, Red Rover, send Judy right over!"  Remember that game? If you were a skilled Red Rover player, your playground social status rose commensurately. And as grown ups, it's still prestigious to be a member of the chosen few.

Many people might say that I fell victim to breast cancer.  Now hear this: I am NOT a victim.  As I detailed in my book IT'S JUST HAIR:20 ESSENTIAL LIFE LESSONS, I was CHOSEN to have breast cancer, along with 288,000 other women in 2011. We're chosen because our experiences can help myriad others in the future, through our work and that of our doctors.  What a humbling opportunity for us to help others in need!

Yes, it takes courage to look at your misfortune and call yourself chosen. But think about this:

1.  "No woman is an island."  Okay, it’s really “man,” but gender doesn't matter.  As humans, we're all interconnected and have to learn from others.

2.  You, too, can be a research rat.  Even if you don't lift a finger, the experience for which you were chosen can aid doctors, scientists, your friends and family, and more.

3.   Give 'em a break.  If we look at our illness as an opportunity to aid society, those who love us might be able to as well.

4.  Champion role model.  Finding good role models for our kids is tough, but when the kids in your life see you standing up to adversity, it will be easier for them to do so when they’re chosen.

5.  Like lima beans, it's good for YOU! If those four reasons don’t float your boat, this one surely will. Having the attitude that you were chosen for your challenge should make you feel special. And that’s a great step back toward health!

Judy Pearson
South Haven, MI

Read other stories!

Love our Stories of Hope?

You can purchase 100 Inspiring Stories From The Breast Cancer Site for your Kindle. Makes a great gift too!

The Breast Cancer Site Home Page

Your click on the "Click Here to Give - it's FREE" button helps fund free mammograms for women in need — low-income, inner-city and minority women whose awareness of breast cancer and opportunity for help is often limited. Your click is paid for by site sponsors, and mammogram funding is provided to clinics throughout the U.S. through grants distributed by With a simple, daily click of the pink "Click Here to Give - it's FREE" button at The Breast Cancer Site, visitors help to provide free mammograms for women in need. Visitors pay nothing. In addition to clicking the pink "Click Here to Give - it's FREE" button, visitors can help more by shopping in The Breast Cancer Site store. With each item purchased, shoppers generate funds that provide free mammograms for women in need.

Share this page and help fund mammograms: